Rebecca Love

1980 - 2007
LocationWath-upon-dearne
Age26 years
Date of Birth09/09/1980
Date of Death03/05/2007
Visitors17,954 since 01/07/2008
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Rebecca Love
3rd May 2007
26
Student Marine Biologist
Halls of Residence, Hull University
Mum, Dad, one Brother Adrian
Brutally murdered by Jason Webster from Leeds

Rebecca was the most beautiful, gentle and loving soul in the world. She was also a very spiritual
person and although she was only very quiet, she touched the lives of everyone she met. She loved
wildlife, especially marine life, and was studying for a degree in marine biology. Her life was
taken in the most horrendous way whilst she was in her room at University. She sustained over 93
injuries. Jason Webster from Leeds was also found guilty of torture. I could not write here what
he did to her; it is so vile that nobody would be able to read it. She was completely
unidentifiable. The Police described her as "unviewable" so we have never been able to see her or
say a proper goodbye to her. We do know however that Rebecca put up a very brave fight against this
monster and in so doing helped to convict him without a shadow of a doubt, despite his many many
lies. He even planted evidence to put the blame onto someone else. She had just one more week left
at the University.

Thankfully, the Police and the Judge, saw him for the evil, lying and conniving excuse for a human
being that he is and sentenced him to a life sentence of 21 years. He has to serve this before he
can apply for parole or submit an appeal but it is us who has to serve the life sentence; the vile
and sadistic things he did to our gentle beautiful Daughter are in our heads every minute of the day
and night. He has been described as a seriously dangerous psychological killer and hopefully will
never ever come out of prison. Lets see if he is as good at coping in prison as he is at torturing
a young girl until she draws her last breath. As it was said in a statement by the Police to the
Press "Jason Webster has literally squeezed the life out of Rebecca" and that is exactly what he did
besides countless other things. There are no words low enough to describe him. To call him an
animal would be insulting the animal kingdom.

Rebecca however had acheived a great deal in her young life and we are so proud of her. She was
very artistic and at the age of about 7 or 8 drew a picture in black ink of a Second World War
plane; this was exhibited in an exhibition in London. She also loved writing and reading poetry and
a booklet has been made of poems which she wrote at 7 and 8 years old. These are now being sold and
the money given to "Becky's Legacy". She attained black belt standard in karate, was an excellent
cross country runner and excelled at swimming. She once swam five miles for charity without
stopping. I think my proudest moment though was just a couple of weeks after her death. A Memorial
Service was held in Hull for her. My Husband and I were too distraught to attend so my Son and his
Partner went on our behalf. At the end of the service a man, who had physical deformities and a
speech impediment, came to Adrian my Son and gave him a gold cross and said "could you please give
this to your Mum and ask her to put it in Rebecca's bedroom. Everytime she saw me at College she
would always come and have a chat with me, ask me how I was going on and ask if she could help me in
any way". "Fancy" he continued "a beautiful young girl like that wanting to spend the time of day
with someone who looks like me". It did make me so proud to be her Mum but I wasn't surprised
because that is the kind of person she was.

Rebecca was also excelling in her work and this was making her especially happy. Just before she
had her life taken, I met her in Hull for a "girlie shopping day". That day she walked on to the
station to meet me and I just stared at her. There was something different about her. She looked
radiant. She was flawless and so confident. There was a strange glow all around her, as though she
was surrounded by a light or an aura. I told her this and she said "I know Mum. It's probably
because I'm so happy. I have never been as happy as I am now". Looking back now, I wonder whether
she was being prepared to be taken to the higher side of life, into the next world.

Rebecca's family have received a letter from Professor David Drewery, Vice Chancellor of Hull
University to say that because of the very high esteem Rebecca was held in and because of the way
she touched so many people's lives and also because of the excellent grades she had achieved in her
work, the University have decided to institute a prize in her name. This is to be attached to the
Department of Biological Sciences at Hull University and the Scarborough Centre for Coastal Studies.
The prize will be called The Rebecca Love Prize. It was considered that this would be a very
fitting honour in Rebecca's memory.

Rebecca's family have also received the following from Hull College where Rebecca had many of her
lessons:-

"Hull College have also decided to award an annual scholarship in the name of Rebecca to support a
student to study the sciences as this was not only Rebecca's area of study but also her passion,
especially environmental and marine sciences. The Wilberforce Scholarship, awarded in Rebecca's
name, will ensure that her name, her memory and the good things she brought to others' lives will
live on. We hope that the student who receives the Scholarship can themselves continue to study and
research and make the difference we know Rebecca would love to have done. Hull College is proud to
be be able to offer this Scholarship as it was proud to have Rebecca as a student".

Just a few days before her life was taken I received a card from her which read "Dear Mum, I just
want to say thank you for helping and supporting me. Thank you for always being there when I've
needed to talk. Thank you for everything you have done for me throughout my life". I rang her to
thank her for the card but said I was surprised to receive it as it wasn't my birthday or anything.
"I know Mum" she said "but I just wanted you to know how much I love you".

Our friends, family, local community and the Spritualist Church where Rebecca had attended since she
was a young girl have now set up "Becky's Legacy" to help the Marine and Seal Hospital at
Scarborough Sealife Centre as Rebecca would have been continuing her studies at Scarborough in
September, a place she loved very much; this depends entirely on donations. We have already raised
quite a considerable sum for them. A new hospital was opened earlier this year and this has been
dedicated to Rebecca; her picture and a plaque are on the door of the hospital. My Husband and I
were recently invited to release back into the wild the first two seals cared for in the new
hospital, one was called Rebecca and one was called Love. Although it was very emotional, we would
not have missed it for the world as we feel that we are helping to carry on the work Rebecca would
have been doing if she were still here. After releasing the seals, we went back to the base where
they had a radio on loudspeakers, The DJ said "I think we will now have some Simply Red, lets have
Stars". This was Rebecca's favourite group; she had been to see them many times and "Stars" was
played at her funeral. I think this was Rebecca giving her seal of approval!

She is so much loved and missed by all her family, friends and local community who still cannot
believe what has happened. Our lives are destroyed as we still struggle every day to live without
her. She was my soul mate and my best friend. We never went to bed without speaking to each other
and shared our joys, sorrows, problems and secrets. We saw her most weekends.

Music was also a big love of Becky's life. Her favourite group were Simply Red. We had been to see
them many times in concert and she had every album and DVD and she knew every word to every song!
She loved all music however and had literally hundreds of CDs. If you mentioned a song she could
instantly tell you what CD it was on, what number track it was and how long it lasted. If we go out
in the car now, both my Husband and I are always looking in the mirrors hoping with all our hearts
to see her sat on the back seat with her earphones on, her head bobbing up and down to the music as
she always did. When she was at home from University we would be out of Church every Sunday night
and straight into the pub to do the music quiz. Happy days!

There are no words I can use to describe what this has done to us but I know her strong
compassionate spirit and her friendly listening ear, that was never judgemental, will always be
around to help those who need it. Nobody, not even anyone as evil as Jason Webster, can break the
bond of love we have with our beautiful Becky.


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Tributes For Week Starting 16th November


FOR MONDAY

Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.

FOR TUESDAY

I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.

FOR WEDNESDAY

Everyday in some small way,
Memories of you come our way,
Though absent, you are always near,
Still missed, loved, always dear.

FOR THURSDAY

Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.


FOR FRIDAY

Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home

The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain

But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace

Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.


FOR SATURDAY

Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears...

It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.

My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know..
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My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.


FOR SUNDAY

When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared,
Miss me but let me go.

For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds -
Miss me, but let me go.

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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe (GTS Friend) 2 weeks ago



♥ 15TH NOVEMBER 2009 ♥



It's Sunday again and the days pass so fast,
But my love for you will always last.
The days go by in such a blur,
Oh I wish that you were here.

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Days turn into months..
Months turn into years..
I still love you with all my heart..
And only wish we never had to part.

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It's Sunday again and there is not a sound,
Theres not even many people walking around.
For Sunday you see is a day of rest..
You should know my angel..
Because you are the best.

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So my darling angel I just want to say...
Have a peaceful Sunday in heaven today.
And remember it's not just on a Sunday I love and miss you..
I love and miss you every day of the week too.

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SENDING YOU SUNDAY BLESSINGS, MAY YOU HAVE A

PEACEFUL DAY, LOVE JUDE. X X

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copyright ~ Jackie Thomas 14/06/09.

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Jude Swaddle 2 weeks ago

I opened up a box one day
What treasures did I find!
Letters and some photographs
Of days we left behind
I drifted back to yesterday
The thought was oh, so clear
For just a moment, anyway
It felt like you were here
I smile when I think of you
Sometimes I cry so much
I'm all alone without you now
I long to feel your touch
But God had other plans for you
An Angel he did find
So now my box of memories
Is all that's left behind.

Love Always Julie XXX

Julie Collinson 2 weeks ago

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God chose you for an angel
He must have needed you
Now every day till we meet again
We'll go on missing you

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Now all we have left are memories
Of the time when you were here
And every day till we meet again
We'll hold those memories dear

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God chose you for an angel
To watch over us below
So remember my sweet angel
How much we love you so

copyright© Ingrid Aspey 15/11/09

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Ingrid A (GTS Friend) 2 weeks ago

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JUST LETTING YOU KNOW I WAS HERE

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TO LEAVE SOME HUGS AND KISSES.

GOODNIGHT ANGEL SLEEP PEACEFULLY ALWAYS.

SWEET DREAMS.

XxX OoO

Violetta Georgallou (Close Friend) 2 weeks ago

My Guardian Angel


My angel's right beside me,
wherever I may go,
keeping close watch over me,
she's my daughter don't you know.
God took her away from me,
not so long ago,
but she promised she'd never leave me,
dear lord I miss her so.
But I know she's right beside me,
wherever I may go,
for she's my guardian angel,
my love, my life, my soul.

In my thoughts and prayers. Love Liz, Stuart's mum xx

Elizabeth Maxwell 2 weeks ago

In Our Hearts

We Thought Of You Wwith Love Today
But That Is Nothing New
We Thought About You Yesturday
And Days Before That Too


We Think Of You In Silence
We Often Speak Your Name
Now All We Have Is Memories
And Your Picture In A Frame


Your Memory
Is Our Keepsake
With wich we'll Never Part
God Has You In His Keeping
We Have You In Our Hearts.


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I need to say goodbye although you're with me.
I stand beside your grave, yet you are here.
I miss you terribly and hope you miss me,
But when I turn to you, you're always near.
I talk to you as though you lived within me,
Not changed but simply moved in from outside.
I know each day you must a little leave me,
But here, as always, you must be my guide.
You were and are and will be, just as ever,
In many minds and hearts, not only mine.
No physical event can such love sever;
Death is a dimension, not a line.
And so goodbye does not mean you are gone:
So long as I still love you, you live on.

Copyright by
Nicholas Gordon

Dawn Walker 2 weeks ago




13TH NOVEMBER 2009


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Jude Swaddle 2 weeks ago

I Never Knew you

To Rebecca and her family

I never knew you Rebecca or your family - i wanted to tell you all how sorry i am that you Rebecca was so cruely taken from you family in such a horrendous was by such an evil man and your family lost such a wonderful daughter, sister ......i cannot imagine the pain your family are feeling at losing you.....rest in peace im sure you are looking down on all your family.......Mum, Dad and family of Rebecca my heart goes out to you....may you all at some time find peace in your heart.....with all my love xxxxxUnknownxxxxxx

Tia Foster 2 weeks ago
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