Rebecca Love

1980 - 2007
LocationWath-upon-dearne
Age26 years
Date of Birth09/09/1980
Date of Death03/05/2007
Visitors17,954 since 01/07/2008
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Rebecca Love
3rd May 2007
26
Student Marine Biologist
Halls of Residence, Hull University
Mum, Dad, one Brother Adrian
Brutally murdered by Jason Webster from Leeds

Rebecca was the most beautiful, gentle and loving soul in the world. She was also a very spiritual
person and although she was only very quiet, she touched the lives of everyone she met. She loved
wildlife, especially marine life, and was studying for a degree in marine biology. Her life was
taken in the most horrendous way whilst she was in her room at University. She sustained over 93
injuries. Jason Webster from Leeds was also found guilty of torture. I could not write here what
he did to her; it is so vile that nobody would be able to read it. She was completely
unidentifiable. The Police described her as "unviewable" so we have never been able to see her or
say a proper goodbye to her. We do know however that Rebecca put up a very brave fight against this
monster and in so doing helped to convict him without a shadow of a doubt, despite his many many
lies. He even planted evidence to put the blame onto someone else. She had just one more week left
at the University.

Thankfully, the Police and the Judge, saw him for the evil, lying and conniving excuse for a human
being that he is and sentenced him to a life sentence of 21 years. He has to serve this before he
can apply for parole or submit an appeal but it is us who has to serve the life sentence; the vile
and sadistic things he did to our gentle beautiful Daughter are in our heads every minute of the day
and night. He has been described as a seriously dangerous psychological killer and hopefully will
never ever come out of prison. Lets see if he is as good at coping in prison as he is at torturing
a young girl until she draws her last breath. As it was said in a statement by the Police to the
Press "Jason Webster has literally squeezed the life out of Rebecca" and that is exactly what he did
besides countless other things. There are no words low enough to describe him. To call him an
animal would be insulting the animal kingdom.

Rebecca however had acheived a great deal in her young life and we are so proud of her. She was
very artistic and at the age of about 7 or 8 drew a picture in black ink of a Second World War
plane; this was exhibited in an exhibition in London. She also loved writing and reading poetry and
a booklet has been made of poems which she wrote at 7 and 8 years old. These are now being sold and
the money given to "Becky's Legacy". She attained black belt standard in karate, was an excellent
cross country runner and excelled at swimming. She once swam five miles for charity without
stopping. I think my proudest moment though was just a couple of weeks after her death. A Memorial
Service was held in Hull for her. My Husband and I were too distraught to attend so my Son and his
Partner went on our behalf. At the end of the service a man, who had physical deformities and a
speech impediment, came to Adrian my Son and gave him a gold cross and said "could you please give
this to your Mum and ask her to put it in Rebecca's bedroom. Everytime she saw me at College she
would always come and have a chat with me, ask me how I was going on and ask if she could help me in
any way". "Fancy" he continued "a beautiful young girl like that wanting to spend the time of day
with someone who looks like me". It did make me so proud to be her Mum but I wasn't surprised
because that is the kind of person she was.

Rebecca was also excelling in her work and this was making her especially happy. Just before she
had her life taken, I met her in Hull for a "girlie shopping day". That day she walked on to the
station to meet me and I just stared at her. There was something different about her. She looked
radiant. She was flawless and so confident. There was a strange glow all around her, as though she
was surrounded by a light or an aura. I told her this and she said "I know Mum. It's probably
because I'm so happy. I have never been as happy as I am now". Looking back now, I wonder whether
she was being prepared to be taken to the higher side of life, into the next world.

Rebecca's family have received a letter from Professor David Drewery, Vice Chancellor of Hull
University to say that because of the very high esteem Rebecca was held in and because of the way
she touched so many people's lives and also because of the excellent grades she had achieved in her
work, the University have decided to institute a prize in her name. This is to be attached to the
Department of Biological Sciences at Hull University and the Scarborough Centre for Coastal Studies.
The prize will be called The Rebecca Love Prize. It was considered that this would be a very
fitting honour in Rebecca's memory.

Rebecca's family have also received the following from Hull College where Rebecca had many of her
lessons:-

"Hull College have also decided to award an annual scholarship in the name of Rebecca to support a
student to study the sciences as this was not only Rebecca's area of study but also her passion,
especially environmental and marine sciences. The Wilberforce Scholarship, awarded in Rebecca's
name, will ensure that her name, her memory and the good things she brought to others' lives will
live on. We hope that the student who receives the Scholarship can themselves continue to study and
research and make the difference we know Rebecca would love to have done. Hull College is proud to
be be able to offer this Scholarship as it was proud to have Rebecca as a student".

Just a few days before her life was taken I received a card from her which read "Dear Mum, I just
want to say thank you for helping and supporting me. Thank you for always being there when I've
needed to talk. Thank you for everything you have done for me throughout my life". I rang her to
thank her for the card but said I was surprised to receive it as it wasn't my birthday or anything.
"I know Mum" she said "but I just wanted you to know how much I love you".

Our friends, family, local community and the Spritualist Church where Rebecca had attended since she
was a young girl have now set up "Becky's Legacy" to help the Marine and Seal Hospital at
Scarborough Sealife Centre as Rebecca would have been continuing her studies at Scarborough in
September, a place she loved very much; this depends entirely on donations. We have already raised
quite a considerable sum for them. A new hospital was opened earlier this year and this has been
dedicated to Rebecca; her picture and a plaque are on the door of the hospital. My Husband and I
were recently invited to release back into the wild the first two seals cared for in the new
hospital, one was called Rebecca and one was called Love. Although it was very emotional, we would
not have missed it for the world as we feel that we are helping to carry on the work Rebecca would
have been doing if she were still here. After releasing the seals, we went back to the base where
they had a radio on loudspeakers, The DJ said "I think we will now have some Simply Red, lets have
Stars". This was Rebecca's favourite group; she had been to see them many times and "Stars" was
played at her funeral. I think this was Rebecca giving her seal of approval!

She is so much loved and missed by all her family, friends and local community who still cannot
believe what has happened. Our lives are destroyed as we still struggle every day to live without
her. She was my soul mate and my best friend. We never went to bed without speaking to each other
and shared our joys, sorrows, problems and secrets. We saw her most weekends.

Music was also a big love of Becky's life. Her favourite group were Simply Red. We had been to see
them many times in concert and she had every album and DVD and she knew every word to every song!
She loved all music however and had literally hundreds of CDs. If you mentioned a song she could
instantly tell you what CD it was on, what number track it was and how long it lasted. If we go out
in the car now, both my Husband and I are always looking in the mirrors hoping with all our hearts
to see her sat on the back seat with her earphones on, her head bobbing up and down to the music as
she always did. When she was at home from University we would be out of Church every Sunday night
and straight into the pub to do the music quiz. Happy days!

There are no words I can use to describe what this has done to us but I know her strong
compassionate spirit and her friendly listening ear, that was never judgemental, will always be
around to help those who need it. Nobody, not even anyone as evil as Jason Webster, can break the
bond of love we have with our beautiful Becky.


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Love is a smile a tear and a touch
Love says little but means so much
Love is forever and we give it to you
From us your family who think the world of you
Hugs
Kxx

Anne Macpherson (Friend) 6 days ago

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I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes & pictures that are left on Christopher's website they are all very much appreciated.


Tributes For Week Starting 23rd November



FOR MONDAY



The best and most beautiful
Things in the world cannot
Be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.


FOR TUESDAY


Gone yet not forgotten,
Although we are apart,
Your spirit lives within me,
Forever in my heart.


FOR WEDNESDAY


A gift for such a little while,
Your loss just seems so wrong,
You should not have left before us,
It’s with loved ones you belong.


FOR THURSDAY


Perhaps they are not
Stars in the sky,
But rather openings
Where our loved ones shine down
To let us know they are happy.



FOR FRIDAY


The Watcher

They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.

And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.

Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.

Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.



FOR SATURDAY


As We Look Back


As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?

For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems

And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?

We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things

Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.



FOR SUNDAY


To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me


When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years

I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I traveled on alone

So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memoriss in your heart

I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear

Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"


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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe (GTS Friend) 1 week ago

God will not abandon you
When your feeling low
His there every step of the way
When a loved one has to go

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He puts his arms around you
You may not feel him in there
But in your times of grief
God is always there to care

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He looks after our loved ones
In heaven where they live
God is there for them too
Unconditional love he does give


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When our time does come
God will take our hand
He will lead us to our angels
To Gods beautiful heavenly land


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Written By Jayne Roddy

XxX OoO

Violetta Georgallou (Close Friend) 1 week ago

No matter what I say or do
All the time I think of you
You're in my Soul and in my Heart
I wish we never had to part.
God Bless xxx

Joan Sykes (Close Friend) 1 week ago

The Yearning For A Child Whose Gone

The yearning for a child whose gone
Goes on and on, and on, and on
Of our souls they are a part
They'll live forever in our heart

There's no way to describe the ache
Of every hour that we're awake
It dulls but never goes away
Only memories sustain us every day

Our memories are what gets us through
The grieving mums like me and you
All we can hope, is to see them again
So we try to live and smile till then.

copyright© Ingrid Aspey 18/11/09

Ingrid A (GTS Friend) 1 week ago

< TEARS >


If my tears could bring you back
theres nothing else i'd ever ask
with tears your memory I now clutch
what i'd give to feel your touch

My vision the tears would blur
they let me see you as you were
they'd build a stairway straight to thee
bringing you back here to me

Down my face the tears would roll
to bring you back for me to hold
not a day would pass you'd be alone
if my tears could bring you home

Down from heaven up above
i'd wrap you in my love
tears falling unable to talk
down the stairs to meet me you'd walk

From heaven god would send you here
to end my sorrow and dry my tears
if only my tears could bring you home
they'd be forever etched in stone



XXX

Violetta Georgallou (Close Friend) 1 week ago

For Rebecca

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Lord Alfred Tennyson


Dark house, by which once more I stand
Here in the long unlovely street,
Doors, where my heart was used to beat
So quickly, waiting for a hand,
A hand that can be clasp'd no more—
Behold me, for I cannot sleep,
And like a guilty thing I creep
At earliest morning to the door.
He is not here; but far away
The noise of life begins again,
And ghastly thro' the drizzling rain
On the bald street breaks the blank day.

Xxx Laura Xxx (Friend) 1 week ago

BROKEN MOTHERS.......

HOW CAN A BROKEN MOTHER EXPLAIN JUST HOW SHE FEELS INSIDE
IT JUST LIKE PART OF HERSELF HAS ALSO DIED
SOME HOW WE KNOW WE MUST JUST CARRY ON
EVEN THOUGH HER CHILD HAS GONE

OTHERS SAY THAT OUR CHILD IS IN A BETTER PLACE
IF THEY SAY THOSE WORDS TO ME THEY ARE A DISGRACE
FOR THERE IS NO BETTER PLACE THAN WITH A MOTHER BY THIER SIDE
YES WE WILL ALWAYS CRY OUR TEARS THOSE WE CANNOT HIDE

WE WILL ALWAYS STILL BE A MOTHER WHEREVER OUR CHILD MAYBE
I THINK MAYBE OUR CHILD MADE US WHO WE ARE REALLY MEANT TO BE
WE MAYBE BROKEN AND SHATTED INSIDE
OUR TEARS WILL STILL FLOW WHY SHOULD WE HIDE

WE STAND TOGETHER BROKEN MOTHERS ALWAYS STAY STRONG
BECAUSE WE KNOW DEEP INSIDE THAT OUR CHILDS SPIRIT WILL LIVE ON
WHEREVER WE GO AND WHATEVER WE DO
OUR CHILDREN WILL ALWAYS BE APART OF OF US TOO.......
copyright Rosalind Roberts 18/11/09

Broken Hearted Mum (Friend) 1 week ago

~With Love ~

♥ Angel Dust ♥

♥ Life can be dark and often hard
with trials and heartbreak sorry and pain
But through those sad times
a ray of sun shines through
Sprinkled with stardust
to brighten life again.♥

♥ Life can be dark and often hard
with trials and heartbreak sorry and pain
But through those sad times
a ray of sun shines through
Sprinkled with stardust
to brighten life again. ♥

♥ When an angel smiles in heaven
a heart is healed on earth
a gentle sprinkle of angel dust
lets you know how much you're worth
It lights the darkest moments
heals the coldest heart
When an angel smiles in heaven
it will touch your coldest part. ♥

♥ So sprinkle me with angel dust
watch me as I glow
I have been touched by an angel
The most wonderful feeling I know. ♥

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By Janice M Pickett

Love and Blessings x x

Fiona Ogden (Friend) 2 weeks ago
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