
| Location | Wath-upon-dearne |
| Age | 26 years |
| Date of Birth | 09/09/1980 |
| Date of Death | 03/05/2007 |
| Visitors | 17,634 since 01/07/2008 |
| Creator |
Rebecca Love
3rd May 2007
26
Student Marine Biologist
Halls of Residence, Hull University
Mum, Dad, one Brother Adrian
Brutally murdered by Jason Webster from Leeds
Rebecca was the most beautiful, gentle and loving soul in the world. She was also a very spiritual
person and although she was only very quiet, she touched the lives of everyone she met. She loved
wildlife, especially marine life, and was studying for a degree in marine biology. Her life was
taken in the most horrendous way whilst she was in her room at University. She sustained over 93
injuries. Jason Webster from Leeds was also found guilty of torture. I could not write here what
he did to her; it is so vile that nobody would be able to read it. She was completely
unidentifiable. The Police described her as "unviewable" so we have never been able to see her or
say a proper goodbye to her. We do know however that Rebecca put up a very brave fight against this
monster and in so doing helped to convict him without a shadow of a doubt, despite his many many
lies. He even planted evidence to put the blame onto someone else. She had just one more week left
at the University.
Thankfully, the Police and the Judge, saw him for the evil, lying and conniving excuse for a human
being that he is and sentenced him to a life sentence of 21 years. He has to serve this before he
can apply for parole or submit an appeal but it is us who has to serve the life sentence; the vile
and sadistic things he did to our gentle beautiful Daughter are in our heads every minute of the day
and night. He has been described as a seriously dangerous psychological killer and hopefully will
never ever come out of prison. Lets see if he is as good at coping in prison as he is at torturing
a young girl until she draws her last breath. As it was said in a statement by the Police to the
Press "Jason Webster has literally squeezed the life out of Rebecca" and that is exactly what he did
besides countless other things. There are no words low enough to describe him. To call him an
animal would be insulting the animal kingdom.
Rebecca however had acheived a great deal in her young life and we are so proud of her. She was
very artistic and at the age of about 7 or 8 drew a picture in black ink of a Second World War
plane; this was exhibited in an exhibition in London. She also loved writing and reading poetry and
a booklet has been made of poems which she wrote at 7 and 8 years old. These are now being sold and
the money given to "Becky's Legacy". She attained black belt standard in karate, was an excellent
cross country runner and excelled at swimming. She once swam five miles for charity without
stopping. I think my proudest moment though was just a couple of weeks after her death. A Memorial
Service was held in Hull for her. My Husband and I were too distraught to attend so my Son and his
Partner went on our behalf. At the end of the service a man, who had physical deformities and a
speech impediment, came to Adrian my Son and gave him a gold cross and said "could you please give
this to your Mum and ask her to put it in Rebecca's bedroom. Everytime she saw me at College she
would always come and have a chat with me, ask me how I was going on and ask if she could help me in
any way". "Fancy" he continued "a beautiful young girl like that wanting to spend the time of day
with someone who looks like me". It did make me so proud to be her Mum but I wasn't surprised
because that is the kind of person she was.
Rebecca was also excelling in her work and this was making her especially happy. Just before she
had her life taken, I met her in Hull for a "girlie shopping day". That day she walked on to the
station to meet me and I just stared at her. There was something different about her. She looked
radiant. She was flawless and so confident. There was a strange glow all around her, as though she
was surrounded by a light or an aura. I told her this and she said "I know Mum. It's probably
because I'm so happy. I have never been as happy as I am now". Looking back now, I wonder whether
she was being prepared to be taken to the higher side of life, into the next world.
Rebecca's family have received a letter from Professor David Drewery, Vice Chancellor of Hull
University to say that because of the very high esteem Rebecca was held in and because of the way
she touched so many people's lives and also because of the excellent grades she had achieved in her
work, the University have decided to institute a prize in her name. This is to be attached to the
Department of Biological Sciences at Hull University and the Scarborough Centre for Coastal Studies.
The prize will be called The Rebecca Love Prize. It was considered that this would be a very
fitting honour in Rebecca's memory.
Rebecca's family have also received the following from Hull College where Rebecca had many of her
lessons:-
"Hull College have also decided to award an annual scholarship in the name of Rebecca to support a
student to study the sciences as this was not only Rebecca's area of study but also her passion,
especially environmental and marine sciences. The Wilberforce Scholarship, awarded in Rebecca's
name, will ensure that her name, her memory and the good things she brought to others' lives will
live on. We hope that the student who receives the Scholarship can themselves continue to study and
research and make the difference we know Rebecca would love to have done. Hull College is proud to
be be able to offer this Scholarship as it was proud to have Rebecca as a student".
Just a few days before her life was taken I received a card from her which read "Dear Mum, I just
want to say thank you for helping and supporting me. Thank you for always being there when I've
needed to talk. Thank you for everything you have done for me throughout my life". I rang her to
thank her for the card but said I was surprised to receive it as it wasn't my birthday or anything.
"I know Mum" she said "but I just wanted you to know how much I love you".
Our friends, family, local community and the Spritualist Church where Rebecca had attended since she
was a young girl have now set up "Becky's Legacy" to help the Marine and Seal Hospital at
Scarborough Sealife Centre as Rebecca would have been continuing her studies at Scarborough in
September, a place she loved very much; this depends entirely on donations. We have already raised
quite a considerable sum for them. A new hospital was opened earlier this year and this has been
dedicated to Rebecca; her picture and a plaque are on the door of the hospital. My Husband and I
were recently invited to release back into the wild the first two seals cared for in the new
hospital, one was called Rebecca and one was called Love. Although it was very emotional, we would
not have missed it for the world as we feel that we are helping to carry on the work Rebecca would
have been doing if she were still here. After releasing the seals, we went back to the base where
they had a radio on loudspeakers, The DJ said "I think we will now have some Simply Red, lets have
Stars". This was Rebecca's favourite group; she had been to see them many times and "Stars" was
played at her funeral. I think this was Rebecca giving her seal of approval!
She is so much loved and missed by all her family, friends and local community who still cannot
believe what has happened. Our lives are destroyed as we still struggle every day to live without
her. She was my soul mate and my best friend. We never went to bed without speaking to each other
and shared our joys, sorrows, problems and secrets. We saw her most weekends.
Music was also a big love of Becky's life. Her favourite group were Simply Red. We had been to see
them many times in concert and she had every album and DVD and she knew every word to every song!
She loved all music however and had literally hundreds of CDs. If you mentioned a song she could
instantly tell you what CD it was on, what number track it was and how long it lasted. If we go out
in the car now, both my Husband and I are always looking in the mirrors hoping with all our hearts
to see her sat on the back seat with her earphones on, her head bobbing up and down to the music as
she always did. When she was at home from University we would be out of Church every Sunday night
and straight into the pub to do the music quiz. Happy days!
There are no words I can use to describe what this has done to us but I know her strong
compassionate spirit and her friendly listening ear, that was never judgemental, will always be
around to help those who need it. Nobody, not even anyone as evil as Jason Webster, can break the
bond of love we have with our beautiful Becky.
God will not abandon you
When your feeling low
His there every step of the way
When a loved one has to go
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He puts his arms around you
You may not feel him in there
But in your times of grief
God is always there to care
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He looks after our loved ones
In heaven where they live
God is there for them too
Unconditional love he does give
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When our time does come
God will take our hand
He will lead us to our angels
To Gods beautiful heavenly land
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Written By Jayne Roddy
XxX OoO
No matter what I say or do
All the time I think of you
You're in my Soul and in my Heart
I wish we never had to part.
God Bless xxx
The Yearning For A Child Whose Gone
The yearning for a child whose gone
Goes on and on, and on, and on
Of our souls they are a part
They'll live forever in our heart
There's no way to describe the ache
Of every hour that we're awake
It dulls but never goes away
Only memories sustain us every day
Our memories are what gets us through
The grieving mums like me and you
All we can hope, is to see them again
So we try to live and smile till then.
copyright© Ingrid Aspey 18/11/09
< TEARS >
If my tears could bring you back
theres nothing else i'd ever ask
with tears your memory I now clutch
what i'd give to feel your touch
My vision the tears would blur
they let me see you as you were
they'd build a stairway straight to thee
bringing you back here to me
Down my face the tears would roll
to bring you back for me to hold
not a day would pass you'd be alone
if my tears could bring you home
Down from heaven up above
i'd wrap you in my love
tears falling unable to talk
down the stairs to meet me you'd walk
From heaven god would send you here
to end my sorrow and dry my tears
if only my tears could bring you home
they'd be forever etched in stone
XXX
For Rebecca
FOR SOMEONE VERY SPECIAL
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. * .. ** .. * . * . * .* . *ღ**ღ**ღ* IF TEARS WERE MADE OF DIAMONDS, WE'D HAVE WEALTH BEYHOND COMPARE. IF MEMORIES WERE MADE OF GOLD, WE'D ALL BE MILLIONARES
Lord Alfred Tennyson
Dark house, by which once more I stand
Here in the long unlovely street,
Doors, where my heart was used to beat
So quickly, waiting for a hand,
A hand that can be clasp'd no more—
Behold me, for I cannot sleep,
And like a guilty thing I creep
At earliest morning to the door.
He is not here; but far away
The noise of life begins again,
And ghastly thro' the drizzling rain
On the bald street breaks the blank day.
BROKEN MOTHERS.......
HOW CAN A BROKEN MOTHER EXPLAIN JUST HOW SHE FEELS INSIDE
IT JUST LIKE PART OF HERSELF HAS ALSO DIED
SOME HOW WE KNOW WE MUST JUST CARRY ON
EVEN THOUGH HER CHILD HAS GONE
OTHERS SAY THAT OUR CHILD IS IN A BETTER PLACE
IF THEY SAY THOSE WORDS TO ME THEY ARE A DISGRACE
FOR THERE IS NO BETTER PLACE THAN WITH A MOTHER BY THIER SIDE
YES WE WILL ALWAYS CRY OUR TEARS THOSE WE CANNOT HIDE
WE WILL ALWAYS STILL BE A MOTHER WHEREVER OUR CHILD MAYBE
I THINK MAYBE OUR CHILD MADE US WHO WE ARE REALLY MEANT TO BE
WE MAYBE BROKEN AND SHATTED INSIDE
OUR TEARS WILL STILL FLOW WHY SHOULD WE HIDE
WE STAND TOGETHER BROKEN MOTHERS ALWAYS STAY STRONG
BECAUSE WE KNOW DEEP INSIDE THAT OUR CHILDS SPIRIT WILL LIVE ON
WHEREVER WE GO AND WHATEVER WE DO
OUR CHILDREN WILL ALWAYS BE APART OF OF US TOO.......
copyright Rosalind Roberts 18/11/09
~With Love ~
♥ Angel Dust ♥
♥ Life can be dark and often hard
with trials and heartbreak sorry and pain
But through those sad times
a ray of sun shines through
Sprinkled with stardust
to brighten life again.♥
♥ Life can be dark and often hard
with trials and heartbreak sorry and pain
But through those sad times
a ray of sun shines through
Sprinkled with stardust
to brighten life again. ♥
♥ When an angel smiles in heaven
a heart is healed on earth
a gentle sprinkle of angel dust
lets you know how much you're worth
It lights the darkest moments
heals the coldest heart
When an angel smiles in heaven
it will touch your coldest part. ♥
♥ So sprinkle me with angel dust
watch me as I glow
I have been touched by an angel
The most wonderful feeling I know. ♥
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By Janice M Pickett
Love and Blessings x x
♥
17TH NOVEMBER 2009
(✣) My Angel (✣)
(✣)My Angels halo shines with love
My Angel is in Gods arms above
My Angel is so beautiful you see..
My Angel watches down on me (✣)
(✣) (✣) (✣) (✣) (✣) (✣) (✣) (✣)
(✣)Sweet dreams precious Angel
Just you snuggle up tight
And rest your wings 'til morning light
Watch over all your family with love..
Beautiful Angel....
In Gods kingdom above (✣)
Love Jude. x x
♥
copyright ~ Jackie Thomas 10/11/09
♥
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Until We Meet Again by Alan G
People try to help me,
Everyone is so kind,
But no matter what they say to me,
I always seem to find,
They look at me with sympathy,
In a caring sort of way,
I thank them and attempt to smile,
As I walk away,
The tears start welling up again,
Every time it’s the same,
I simply fall to pieces,
At the mention of your name.
I know that your in heaven now,
And my heart is filled with pain,
But the angels will take care of you,
Until we meet again






























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